SAMPLE STORY
Life on Wheels
By Jordan Lowe
When I was seventeen, a month away from my high school graduation, I was in a motor vehicle accident.
My boyfriend and I were coming back from a dirt track race that ended late. It was 1:30 a.m. We both fell asleep and I woke up right as the truck started rolling. I knew something was wrong immediately but I was more focused on my boyfriend and how he was doing. He got out of the vehicle and called the cops, and stood by me until the paramedics got arrived. After all the tests and X-rays it was official; I suffered a spinal cord injury. The doctors diagnosed me as a quadriplegic and told me I would be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life.
I decided I wasn’t going to let my condition get the best of me. I was going to move on with my life. I knew too many people who just gave up after something like this and I wasn’t going to do the same. My mom was diagnosed with postpartum depression after I was born. Instead of getting help for her problem, she turned to drugs and alcohol. But I have always been a strong-willed and stubborn woman, so when I was dealt this hand I decided I was going to play it to the best of my ability.
I went through three months of intensive inpatient therapy and I continue to go back when I need it. During those three months I learned how to get dressed and how to move from place to place along with other important day-to-day activities. It was extremely difficult re-learning how to do simple tasks, but I stuck it out. Being in rehab and listening to everyone’s stories made me a better person. It gave me a different outlook on life and on my situation. I realized all the things I had taken for granted and saw that I had a second chance to appreciate my life. I finished my senior year in the hospital and, to my surprise, the doctor let me go to graduation. When I got out of the hospital I reenrolled at Fairmont State University in the psychology department.
Since my accident I have accomplished so many obstacles. Many people doubted my ability to live a normal life. When I started school my sister would come home and tell me that people believed I would never make it in college. They said I was going to live off disability the rest of my life and I wouldn’t make anything of myself. They were wrong. In the summer I ride four wheelers almost daily. I am definitely a country girl, so hunting is a must. I also like to fish and to swim—well, float—in the river. This past summer my friend, Jennifer, and I decided to try horseback riding. Though we don’t have it perfected yet, I still got to ride. It was incredible. I am also in the process of getting my driver’s license. I can drive with hand controls that work with the gas and the brake. The rest of the vehicle works the same as a regular vehicle.
In September 2013, I entered the Ms. Wheelchair USA pageant. I was then selected to be Ms. Wheelchair West Virginia and I will represent my state in the national pageant in July 2014. As a participant I had to come up with a platform I felt strongly about. I chose to educate and to promote awareness about people with disabilities and the type of support they may need. I chose this platform because I know people who have experienced no support and have traveled down the wrong path time and time again.
Nowadays, I spend my time going around to different events and hospitals talking about my platform and sharing my story. One thing I always tell people is that the only true handicap you can have is yourself. You can do anything as long as you set your mind to it.
Contagious Perspective (takeaway sample)
Having a disability doesn’t mean you have to give up on life. Don’t dwell on what you don’t have; embrace what you do have.
Jordan Lowe (bio sample)
Jordon suffered from a spinal cord injury when she was 17 years old which has left her in a wheelchair. She is currently enrolled in Fairmont State University for a degree in psychology. Jordon also travels as a motivational speaker. She is currently the title holder of Ms. Wheelchair West Virginia and will be competing in the upcoming national pageant. Her goal is to show young men and women that they can do anything regardless of the obstacles. Her mantra, “Never give up on your dream no matter how hard the journey.” (insert email and/or website address here)